Who We Are


Our ministry is devoted to helping people of all ages find freedom in Biblical sexual integrity by providing support and restoration.

 

The Changing Lanes Story

Our world is filled with sexuality. Society says, “your identity is in your sexuality.” Changing Lanes is a nonprofit 501(c)3 based out in Tulsa, OK that believes true identity can be found in Jesus Christ. Sexuality is a beautiful gift from God and can be embraced as part of our identity in Christ.

Changing Lanes started with the sharing of a story of brokenness. People connected with the simple idea that freedom may be possible in community. Meeting with one individual in a counseling office break room led to hundreds in small groups, Changing Lanes has been helping the church restore its members to sexual integrity since 2007.

As word of Changing Lanes spreads, we have increased our offering of services to help the church. Groups are offering in-person and online.

What started to help men, has grown to offer groups for men, and women, of all ages. Parents caught in the struggle of the digital age can find help in our parent forums.

Those who want to bring our small groups to their community can join our certified leader training program. Churches who partner with Changing Lanes receive the full offering of our services. We will speak with your groups and congregation to help start the journey of transforming lives.

Our Founder

In 2007, our founder shared his twenty-two year story of sexual addiction to offer hope. In 2010 we started providing Biblically based behavioral, emotional and spiritual pastoral counseling in small groups for men. A story of hope, has grown to a ministry helping men, teens, parents, families and churches find hope and restoration through the impact of a changed life.

What we do

  • Generation Impact

We work with youth leaders to equip teens in the battle of sexuality

  • Helping Churches

We partner with churches to reduce the weight of sexual addiction for the staff.

  • Redefining Technology

We take the despair of the internet and use it for hope in small groups.

  • Equipping Families

Through panel discussions, training and consultations, we help parents offer freedom to their children.

  • Building Community

We use our small groups to help build accountability and reengage men into the role of leaders. 

  • Finding Identity

We reevaluate identities and celebrate hope found in an identity in Christ.

“I've learned that it's OK to be uncomfortable and vulnerable, and in those moments are when growth happens. I finally believe that God loves me.”

— CL Graduate