Changing Lanes Groups
The Changing lanes experience
In our hybrid mens groups you’ll experience all of this:
Tools to battle sexual sin
Three levels of accountability with other group members
Large group, small group, and one-on-one
New and deeper relationship with Jesus Christ
New life that will transform NOT only you but generations to follow.
The six phases
Each phase will give you an opportunity to find hope and accountability with a group of other men.
Phase 1 - Introduction & basics
Phase 2 - Obtaining tools to manage every day life
Phase 3 - Surrendering to new life
Phase 4 - Understanding Why I Do the Things I Do Not Want to Do
Phase 5 - Redefining the past
Phase 6 - How to live a new life
FAQs
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A typical CL meeting is approximately three hours (One hour for teaching and two hours for check-in).
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Sixteen months
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Each meeting consists of one hour for teaching and two hours for check-in.
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A CL Small Group is twelve individuals meeting weekly for teaching, check-in, accountability, and community.
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We do not have a referral service setup, but we highly encourage members to be in individual or marriage counseling. A person who attends counseling as well as a group will exponentially increase their chance of finding freedom.
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CL is different in that we focus on accountability, community, discipleship, and transformation through the power of Jesus Christ. Each session includes a one hour teaching and then the group is separated into two small groups for an interactive check-in. Group members are required to communicate through a chat app with their small group and small group leaders throughout the week. Our focus is not considered recovery. Changing Lanes is focused on transformation leading to lives being restored.
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CL is an independent ministry. God lead our founder, Brett Hendrix, to start helping men in 2007.
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We do offer resources within CL for partners of CL members. Please contact Brittany at brittany@changinglanes.org for more information.
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The cost depends on the option of your participation in the group. In-person attendance is $1200. On-line attendance is $1,520.
We offer three other payment options:
One payment (Best price)
In-person $1,200
Online $1,520
4 quarterly payments
In-person $320 ($1,280 total)
Online $400 ($1,600 total)
Sixteen monthly payments
In-person $100 ($1,600 total)
Online $125 ($2,000 total)
Partial scholarships are available. Email info@changinglanes.org to inquire about our scholarship opportunities.
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The cost covers the group fee, books, and materials.
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The reason most people join CL is due to the secrets they have kept for years. To help a CL member find transformation, we require a member to join his group weekly, participate in the teaching discussion, learn the verse given each week, complete homework and/or reading assignments before the next meeting, share transparently during check-in, engage with their group regularly throughout the week via a group message, and weekly meet with their assigned accountability partner.
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Yes, our offices are located at 9810 East 42nd Street, Suite 220 Tulsa, Oklahoma.
Authentic. Relational. life Changing
Changing Lanes offers CL Men’s Hybrid Groups to men to find hope in a small group. You will find a safe, relational, and authentic community to heal in your journey through porn or sex addiction.
Member Testimonies
“Every week, the group challenged and encouraged me to pursue, not just simply ‘not acting out’ in my addiction, but living the life that God had intended me to live as His man, as a husband, and as a father.”
— M.M
“After struggling in various degrees with pornography since I was a child, Changing Lanes has equipped me with tools that not only have helped to free me from the pull of porn but also to dig deeper as to why I turned to porn as an outlet. Today I can recognize those causes and have successfully been released from those chains that kept me bound for over 40 years.”
— B.L.
SAFE. CONFIDENTIAL. COMMUNITY.
Every leader has walked the road of sexual addiction restoration.